After two months my season is over! - Reisverslag uit Arnhem, Nederland van Linda Damhuis - WaarBenJij.nu After two months my season is over! - Reisverslag uit Arnhem, Nederland van Linda Damhuis - WaarBenJij.nu

After two months my season is over!

Door: Linda

Blijf op de hoogte en volg Linda

05 Juni 2016 | Nederland, Arnhem

Hello Everyone,

First I wanted to apologize for not writing any stories about my time on the ship. This was not because I didn't want to, there were definitely things to tell, like the time when a gentleman from New Zealand gave me his address, because he really liked me, or the time when one of our guests walked into the water near our docking position in Amsterdam, that was actually hilarious!!!

No unfortunately there were some things going on that made me too tired to actually be able to sit down and write you all a story.

I will not go into all the details.
But the second receptionist they had me working with was a major pain in the ass, she kept telling me what to do. She was also the Hotel Managers wife and they both assured me that they kept work and private things separate, but that wasn't true.

At the end of April I had already had enough and told them I was going to leave, but they managed to talk me into staying. But I should have left when I said I would, because things only got worse.

Then on the 15th of May I had send an email to the corporate that is responsible for our ship that he would have to get me off of this ship or I would really leave this time. He told me he would find a suitable solution for this.

Later that week another corporate came to the ship to talk to us...he was actually yelling at her, which really did not help at all, but made things even worse. Because now they were blaming me for getting her fired, because all it would take was one email from me...but I had never asked them to get rid of her, I wanted to get away.

Anyway, I got an email from the corporate I had talked to in the beginning and this tone was soo completely different from what we had talked in before, that I called him to ask him about it. And basically it made me feel like I was a pain in his backside and that really pissed me off!

I had told them a number of times now that I could not work with this person, I had reached my limit and they kept asking me to try again. So how many more times would I have to tell them I couldn't do it anymore and how many more times would they ask me to try again??

So I told them that I would quit and I wanted to leave in Amsterdam that coming weekend. But of course they couldn't find me a replacement that fast and I didn't want to completely close the door on the company, so I stayed another week and I left in Basel...

But in all that time not once did anyone try to change my mind, or said Thank you or all the best, good luck with finding a new job...which makes me think something fishy was going on there!
I know the HM wrote an email to the corporate that came the second time, saying he was rude for yelling at his wife and I'm thinking maybe he threatened to leave also if they were going to fire his wife and of course it is harder to find a new HM then it is to find a new receptionist...

But anyway, all is well for me! As soon as I had made that decision I was at peace, no more knot in my stomach and so on.

Now I'm at home and taking it easy for a while. Get some sleep.
I'm at my mom's now, giving some attention to my rabbit. Poor thing is feeling her age and she needs some attention!!

When I feel well and rested, I'm going to go back out there and see what door will open for me this time, after I have closed the one of the ship, I'm sure there will be another opportunity out there for me!!

I will keep you posted!!

Love
Linda

  • 06 Juni 2016 - 23:32

    Michelle:

    Sorry to hear this season didn't go as you'd planned. Good luck finding a great new role (you will!) and enjoy a well earned break xx

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Australie Adventure!

Sunday November 29th 2015
Yes, tomorrow is the day form my new adventure!
The two and a half weeks that I have been at home, have flown by so to speak! Tomorrow around a quarter to 1 in the afternoon I will fly from Amsterdam to Hong Kong with Cathay Pacific. I will have a 15 hour layover here…and this time I will not just sit around and wait! Like I did in Singapore 2 years ago, the first half is ok, but when you are getting closer to the hour that you are supposed to leave all you want to do is sleep…which of course you will not be able to do anyway!
So this time I have arranged to get a place to sleep, take a shower and eat! There are different lounges at the airport that provide this for people who are just passing by. They don’t have hotels at the airport yet, there’s some in the city, but I don’t like to leave the airport knowing I have to be back at a certain time. So I will go there between 1 and 6 pm, so I can just walk around in the morning, have some breakfast and then I don’t have to wait that long for my next flight either.
Then on Wednesday the 2nd of December I will arrive in Cairns, I have already arranged a shuttle bus to take me to the hostel, so I will not have to look for anything. Then I was also thinking about a number of things I could do when I was there…but I have decided to just take my time to adjust to the climate and so on! I mean winter is coming and it is pretty cold here, it is going to be very hot down there, so I’m sure I will need a couple of days for that!
I will be in Cairns until Sunday and I will decide when I get there when to leave and where to go next. There’s just too much to see and do down there, I just have to keep in mind that I will not be able to see and do it all!
I will of course keep you all posted of my adventures in my stories!
Love
Linda

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